None of this really ruins the language for me, considering pros vs cons as a whole, but sometimes I'm slowed down in that by the time I finish mentally spelling out and typing the struct accessing I half forget the context I was in, and in general I'm sensitive to "eye bleed". Sometimes Racket looks like:
(define define match-define define define-values define begin cond define define)
when the real meat of the algorithm is more like:
cond
...and where Haskell's "where"s, "|"s, and "="s shine.
I'm sure I've over-answered your question but it's the holidays and I'm bored :)
edit: Since Racket uses dot already, it would probably have to be a different character, or the other way around.
I am curious how you would change the struct syntax?